WASHINGTON POST – Apr 25 – More than twice as many couples who married last year met through online dating services than at a club or social event, according to a new survey by Match.com.

The survey found that 17% of those who married in the past three years met online, making it the third-most-frequent method of introduction, behind meeting through friends, at work or school.

A Harris Interactive poll sponsored by eHarmony found that only 9% of couples married that year were introduced through such services. (The Harris study claims that 2% of recently married American couples met through eHarmony.)

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You’d be hard pressed to find one person who doesn’t know someone who met their partner online. Just a quick message to my friends on Facebook returned overwhelming response as to how many of them met their spouse online or knew someone who did.

It’s growing more and more common and as experiences yield proper tips and suggestions to online dating habits, I think more and more people are willing to take that plunge.

Dear Coco,

What is wrong with single men? I want a relationship that leads to marriage and kids, and at 34 I can’t afford to waste my time. Am I just really unlucky or do men stop their mental development after they get out of high school? They often want sex without a relationship (something I never do), or they are too busy with their careers. What do I have to do to be taken seriously? I haven’t dated a guy longer than a month in over three years. Is it possible in this day and age to find a man who wants to get serious?

End of my Rope

Dear Rope,

Take a few deep breaths. Your anxieties are turning you into the dating equivalent of a circus freak; it’s no wonder the men run screaming. If you want them to stick around you need to lighten up in a major way. Quit husband-hunting!

That’s right—all thoughts of wedding receptions and seating charts and monogrammed napkins are heretofore forbidden. Ditch the rules and make a decision to date for fun only. Do not think of trying to turn the men you date into husband—or even boyfriend-material; simply focus on whether you enjoy their company on that particular night. Date as many of them as you can at once, but if they ask if you want to go steady, shake your head wistfully and say, "You know, it’s not a good time for me…" You will seem fun and cool and perhaps slightly tragic, as though nursing some mysterious and impenetrable wound. Guys will desire you all the more, and one of them will fall in love with your freaky, circus-lady self.

Reprinted with permission via Match.com